Home Add to Favorite Contact Submit  
             26 June, 2022
 

    
Category:  Articles » Self Improvement » Inspirational

 

How To Be An achiever

Popularity:
         Views: 1347
2006-07-21 20:22:06     
Article by cdmohatta

Go back to your school days. Think of some friends who could never finish their examinations? They always had some or the other excuse to leave few questions unanswered. In our life, we come across people who never finish what they begin to do. They are always having some very good excuse for not finishing the given task. These people never achieve anything in their life and are full of complaints about their fate, their friends, their family, and the world in general.

On the other side, we find some stars, who finish the most difficult work finding different ways and overcoming insurmountable obstacles. Why this difference? If you study carefully, a non-achiever will always begin some work with great enthusiasm, then slowly the enthusiasm will get replaced by tiredness and excuses and by the time he/she were supposed to finish, he/she would have invented excuses. Whereas the achievers don't show enthusiasm, but it seems that they are studying the situation. After some study, they plan out the way to finish the task and then begin. They stop only after finishing it. Right from beginning, you will find determination in them that they would be able to do it.

Can we turn a non-achiever in an achiever. Yes. It can be done. The first step is to talk to the non-achiever and without hurting his/her self esteem, point it out that the achievements are very low. Then in a friendly manner, and without making any criticism, ask them for the reasons. They will come out with their old script of how things never turn out right for them. Listen them out. Don't get irritated. Don't show any expression but understanding on your face. Let them know that you are for them and not against them. Tell them that you understand what they say.

Now is the time to plan something with them. Give them a small task and monitor the progress. As they proceed, you will see the signs given before. At this juncture, gently show them different ways to finish and tell them that the happiness of completing the job will be much greater than the happiness of blaming others if the job remains incomplete. Carry out this exercise few times with them and they will begin to realize their mistake. They will slowly begin achieving and turn out a lesson for other non-achievers.

This problem is found by many employers in their employees, by many parents in their children and by many coaches in some members of their team. The trick lies in being with the person, rather than taking the role of a judge. Inspire the non-achiever with some ecards. Everyone of us can not be a success from day one. We must support and contribute to the development of other personalities.

Print article      Bookmark this page
Related Articles 
November 22 - St Cecilia's Day, and Dryden's Poem 'Alexander's Feast' (Popularity: ): Saint Cecilia, a Roman virgin and martyr (230A.D.) is traditionally the patron saint of music and the inventor of the organ. Dryden's poem Alexander's Feast is written in celebration of St Cecilia's Day on 22 November 1697.The poem opens with Alexander the Great, son of Philip, King of Macedon, seated along with Thais, the young and lovely Athenian courtesan, enjoying the banquet in the Persian city Persepolis in celebration of ...
Mind-Blowing Facts to Inspire You (Popularity: ): Did you know that:* Every breath we breathe in 10 to the power of 22 atoms. * In less than one year you replace 98% of the atoms in your body. * You create a new liver every 6 weeks. * You create a new stomach lining every 5 days. * You create a new skin once per month. * You create a new skeleton every 3 months. * The brain cells you are using to ...
How is Your Faith Muscle? (Popularity: ): Your faith muscle must be exercised to build strength, endurance, sustenance, and resistance.Strength - to carry the dream.Endurance - to continue to the length of time it takes to get to the final birthing of the dream.Sustenance - to uphold you and encourage you to keep moving forward in spite of the distance, the weight of the dream, the pressure, disappointments, discouragements and setbacks.Resistance - to deflect negativity - doubts, ...
So What? Tips to Losing Inhibitions (Popularity: ): It's a beautiful thing when you finally come to realize that what people think about you doesn't really matter. This year, my word for the year is "SO!"One of the hugest problems I have personally always had is wanting to please others, and be liked by everyone. Oh, it's such an enslaving thing to live for peoples acknowledgments, because what happens is either of the following:1. You become repressed- living ...
Are You Trying to Conquer Your Goliath, With Little Success? (Popularity: ): Perhaps you're working from the wrong mold.David was the runt of his family. His elder brothers were a part of the Israelite army; skilled fighters, while David cared for sheep.The Israelite army was on the battleground with the Philistine army, and David rose up early the morning, left his sheep with a keeper, to take provisions to his brothers.Goliath, the Philistine champion, was 'strutting his stuff', against the Israelite army, ...


Related Business 
Achiever (Popularity: ): Supplier of CRM, eCRM and e-business software solutions.
Huron Camera Online (Popularity: ): Cameras and accessories; Achiever flashes, Zing Pouches, used equipment, digital prints and 120/220 processing.
Sword Group (Popularity: ): At Sword Achiever, our goal is to help business leaders achieve sustainable growth through informed, accurate and ethical decisions by providing actionable intelligence to control, protect and improve key Governance, Risk and Compliance (GRC) processes.
Achiever Plus Environmental Software (Popularity: ): A comprehensive informational site with case studies describing software solutions for ISO 14000 and ISO 9000 integrated environmental, quality and health & safety management.
Vanguard Business School (Popularity: ): Vanguard Business School is one of the most popular b schools in Bangalore. The programs at Vanguard are intended keeping in mind the accurate combination of practical Business Knowledge, Industry Skills, and the Attitude of an achiever.
Seek After School Care for Your Child Online (Popularity: ): In today’s hectic, fast paced life, many parents are working due to which they do not get as much time to spend with their children or pay the required attention towards them. This is why most of the parents enroll their child into a kindergarten. After school care is an institute that provides proper education to your child during his early developmental years. They help your child grow, learn and ...